Rock On!

When I took the job as Curriculum Coordinator and completed my Master's program in School Administration, I promised myself I would NEVER forget what it's like to be a teacher.

To be on the frontlines of education... where the magic happens, where the kid remembers you for the rest of his life, where you see light bulbs go off after hours of teaching...

Where you work harder than anyone else in the professional world.

I think sometimes those of us out of the classroom can easily forget what it's like to be on the battlegrounds, and I don't ever want to let my memories become too hazy.  I want to always be able to understand and relate to the second most important people in the school (sorry, teachers - the kids came in first!).

So, during a time of year when we're all running out of steam, and patience, and mindpower, and energy - I just want to say THANK YOU to all of the awesome teachers in our building.

As we head toward the end of the first half of the school year, I'm so proud to work in OUR school.  It's been the most challenging year yet in education - at least as long as I've been a part of the educational world - and our teachers have taken things in stride, kept the kids first, and even managed to keep smiling.

I'm so honored to be a part of this staff, and so excited about all of the progress we're making as a school.  So during a time when you feel overworked and underappreciated, know that I ALWAYS appreciate what you do and will ALWAYS remember what it's like to be you.

And you're doing awesome.  With Common Core, PLCs, CFAs, new testing, TRC, DIBELS, conferences, report cards, progress reports, oh yeah - and teaching - You're not only surviving, you're doing a GREAT job.

Rock on!

Don't Forget!
December 7th - 3rd, 4th, and 5th Grade Classroom Spelling Bee Winners' Names Due to Peele
December 11th - TRC/K-3 Assessment Training for PRTs 9:00-10:30
December 12th - Set up Science Fair
December 13th - Science Fair Judging 9:30
December 14th - All Classes/Parents Invited to Walk Through Science Fair
December 18th - School Spelling Bee 1:30
January 7th - TRC/K-3 Assessment Training for ALL K-3 Teachers 3:45-5:15
January 10th - PLC Training for Facilitators at Kernersville ES 3:30-5:00

Wait for it...

Last week I was meandering through classrooms, observing and enjoying the view from the frontlines.  In one particular classroom, a teacher was giving a math lesson.  She asked a question, and called on a student who eagerly raised his hand.

He spouted out the wrong answer.

The teacher urged him to rethink his answer and rework his math.

Other than his pencil scribbling on his paper, the room was silent.

We waited.  And waited.  And waited.

I wanted SO badly to help him, give him a hint, call out the answer.

But we waited.

And finally...

He got it.

And the teacher moved on to the next problem, and the class went about the rest of their day as usual.  But I was so affected, by something so minor.

Because the teacher had given this child some wait-time, let him think through the process, given him as much space as he needed, he was able to find success.  Even moreso, the teacher had obviously conditioned her students to this type of practice, as not one student huffed or puffed in frustration at how long it took the little boy to answer, nor did anyone call out the answer.

They waited, too.

Giving students - children - this window of wait-time, this opportunity to take their time to think, explore, try, fail, try again, succeed... is imperative.  And sometimes we're all so consumed with moving on, getting to the next question, checking things off the list - we fail to allow for the awkward silence, the minutes when a child's brain is ticking, connecting, figuring things out.  But it's SO important to do that... let them figure it out without us always doing the figuring out for them.

So, remember, when we're wanting to jump in, and help, and hold their hand, and give them the answer...

Just wait for it.

Whew.

My AP is always telling me that Dr. Oz says you're supposed to take something like ten deep breaths every now and then to keep yourself calm and stable and healthy and happy and who has time to remember to take ten deep breaths when you're a full-time working mama to a mobile, constantly-moving eleven-month-old and a wife to a husband who works almost every evening and life feels like a race I'm never winning?

Or was it take deep breaths for ten seconds?

Something like that, right Mr. Maglio?

Anyway, lately it seems as though I've needed to breathe-in-breathe-out to a calming rhythm all day long.  Life has felt like, well, A LOT lately, TOO MUCH, even... So I can't begin to imagine how the teachers are feeling!  Because if you think about it, EVERYONE has their own "stuff."  Everyone has stress outside of work... and just because my stress is different than your stress, that doesn't mean one of us has more "stuff" than the other.

Sometimes we get so caught up in our own worlds, our own little bubbles, we fail to realize that the world is continuing to spin on its axis around us.  I am guilty of getting lost in my bubble... struggling to come up for air and letting the little things throw me for a loop and pushing on, and on, and on without enjoying the view.  Case in point - I have eaten lunch while furiously working since school started about a month ago.  I've never been the kind of person who works through lunch!

Breathe in - 1, 2, 3...

I think we're all in that place right now in the world of education.  The beginning of a school year is NO JOKE.  Especially when we're introducing a brand new curriculum and everything seems like it's changing.  Not to mention whatever else is going on in our lives outside of the walls of Moore.

But let's try to encourage each other to follow Dr. Oz's advice - I may give him the side-eye for some of his health recommendations, but I think he's on to something when he urges deep breathing.  Let's try to pause, take deep breaths, and know that this too, shall pass.  And while we're doing all this breathing, let's also try to remember that whether the person beside us may seem to have it all together or may seem to barely be hanging on, we all have our "stuff."  And sometimes the only way to get through the stuff is to lift each other up...

And, of course, breathe.

Will You Sleep on Sunday?

Someone once told me that if the time comes when you can sleep well the night before the first day of school, it's time for you to get out of the profession.

Whaddya think?

I always, always, always toss and turn and wrestle butterflies in my stomach on the first-day-of-school-eve.  Even now in my job as Curriculum Coordinator, there's just something about the anticipation of the first day that gives me the excited jitters.

I get SO excited to see the kids -- some rubbing their sleepy eyes, some holding back tears of nervousness, some bouncing up and down the hallways as if they never left.

I LOVE seeing their new school goodies - their clothes, shoes, bookbags, lunch boxes, and even their new 'dos.

I REVEL in the energy that quickly fills the school as those new shoes squeak across the freshly waxed floors.  As I've mentioned before, a school is just not right until it's full of children.

I BASK in all of the sounds that echo down the hallway as the day gets going - children talking, laughing, saying bye to their nervous mamas... the sounds of bookbags unzipping, pencils being sharpened, rules being taught.

You see, as hard as it has been to leave my little girl to come back to work, I honestly enjoy the first day of school as much as the last day.  And sure, on the last day of school, we were dancing and cheering and singing and grooving on the back sidewalk, shouting, "SCHOOL'S...OUT...FOR...SUMMER!"

But let's bring that same energy, that same excitement to our kids on Monday.

And I can guarantee that if you're tossing and turning on Sunday night, batting at butterflies instead of counting sheep... you're not alone.

Remember?

We made it!  We did it!

The last day is here…

We’ve officially survived

Another school year.

But wasn’t Open House

Just yesterday?

Didn’t we just meet each other,

And shyly say, “Hey…”?

It seems as if the school year,

Just got off to a start…

But now it’s already time

For us all to depart!

But before you pack up,

and race off to the pool…

Let’s highlight some memories

From this year in school.

Remember the decorated doors?

And Curriculum Night?

“Happy School Year!” we shouted,

As we started the year off right.

Remember when three mamas-to-be,

Waddled around the school?

Now their babies are here,

Full of babbles and drool!

Remember Jump Rope for Heart?

And cool Mr. Hicks…

Teaching us ways to be healthy

So we don’t live life sick.

Remember our awesome music teacher,

Guiding our productions, so neat!

Mrs. Noisette is so talented!

Always keeping us on beat.

Remember the way you learned to draw?

Our resident artist, Mrs. Wiles!

Who taught us to paint, color, and mold,

All with a smile.

Remember when you were having a bad day,

And needed an ear?

Mrs. Collins was there for you,

Ready to hug and hear.

Remember when you really wanted to read?

Or needed to find an AR book?

Mr. Brandt was your man,

Taking the time to help you look.

And what would we do without the ladies in the office?

Giving us a hug, a smile, or a band-aid.

Taking our money, calling our parents,

Letting us know it’ll all be okay.

Remember when you got into a little bit of trouble?

Or maybe needed help with your bus?

Mr. Maglio was always there for you,

Helping you while being fair and just.

Remember when our own Miss Hennings

Won Teacher of the Year?

She was so deserving, so special…

We’re all so lucky to have her here!

Remember when Mrs. Smith was all dressed up,

Like Dr. Seuss’ Cat in the Hat?

She even had whiskers and a tail…

I bet you’ll never forget that!

Then there was Multicultural Night,

Birthday balloons, tie-dye, and hat days…

Field Day!  One of everyone’s favorites,

As you got to go outside and play.

Games, cotton candy, and the dunking booth…

Spring Fling was a blast, too!

There was so much fun to be had all year long,

What sticks out the most to you?

Most importantly, though, are the relationships formed,

Between students, teachers, families, and staff.

So please always remember each other fondly…

The good times, the hard times, the times we’ve laughed.

It’s time to bid farewell… for now.

So say goodbye to all of your friends…

Summertime is officially here,

We’ll see you in August when we begin again!

3 Things

True story.

I was a waitress for a number of years throughout high school and college.  I learned a lot of things - how to balance three plates across my arm at one time, how they make the tea SO sweet, how to use the lemon slicer, and how to roll up the silverware.  However, the most profound lesson I learned came from a scraggly old man who asked for a table for one.

I remember the day so clearly.

It was a slow lunch, and the hostess had taken a break.  So when he walked in the door, I took it upon myself to welcome him.

He was the kind of man who intimidates you at first.

He towered over me - and I'm a pretty tall drink of water!  He had holes in his clothes, an unshaven face, and dirt under his fingernails.  His voice was low, creepy.  But, he was nice enough.  "Table for one?"  He asked.

That was about all he said, other than placing his order.

He ate quietly and asked for the bill.  When he handed me his completed check, he said the following:

"I've left you a tip.  But I've got another tip for you... In life, you only need three things to make you happy:  someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to."

Then he got up, and walked out.

Weird, I thought.  But for the rest of the day, his advice ran on repeat in my head.

And about 11 years later, I've always remembered his words.

It's true, if you think about it.  What more can we ask for in life, other than someone to love, something to do, and something to look foward to?  Life gets crazy, and overwhelming, and out-of-control - but at the end of the day, if we focus on these three things, we can feel full. 

And happy. 

And complete.

Don't Forget!
May 21st-May 25th - Remediation
May 29th-June 1st - EOG Retesting

June 5th - Kindergarten Celebration

June 6th - 5th Grade Celebration

June 7th - Last day of school!

June 8th - Cumulative Folder Check (Peele, Maglio, Cooper) in Office Conference Room

June 8th - Staff Luncheon

June 11th - Cumulative Folder Check (Peele, Maglio) in Office Conference Room

Enjoy the Ride

We all know I love making to-do lists.  For anything and everything.  I love having my tasks organized, checking off the boxes, and knowing what’s left to be done.  Sometimes, however, I get so focused on accomplishing my to-do’s I forget to stop and enjoy the ride.

         Especially as a full-time working mom.

On Saturday, I went for my typical 7:30am run.  I had my head down, focused on completing my miles, music blaring in my iPod.  About halfway through, I turned down a path that leads into a wooded area.  For one reason or another, I happened to look up, and it was beautiful.  The trees were so full of bright green leaves, the sun was peeking out from behind a cloud, making these little jagged rays of light.  Sounds simple, but it took my breath away.  (Or maybe it was the running that took my breath away?)  Anyway, here I was, so focused on accomplishing my run… and I realized I NEVER look up to enjoy what’s going on around me.

And then, about a mile later, my iPod died on me.

        

Now listen – I CANNOT run without music.  It’s like my fuel, especially when it comes to rounding out the last couple miles.  But I didn’t have a choice.  And all of a sudden, I was not only running with my head up, enjoying all of the things to see, I was listening to all kinds of sounds other than country music… like the birds announcing the start of a new day, a child giggling in a stroller, and a woodpecker working on a tree.  Again, simple – but enough to give me pause.

I have to admit that becoming a mom has forced me to live in the moment MUCH more than I used to.  When I’m with my daughter, I’m 100% focused on each moment we have together, especially now that I spend so much time away from her at work.  I love lying next to her on the floor, watching her play and discover new things.  She seems to figure something else out each day – it’s incredible!

But the minute I’m not with her, I’m usually all about tackling my to-do’s… putting my head down and moving down my list to check off the next box.

 

During this time of the school year, we all have a tendency to get stressed out - and hey, can you blame us?  There just doesn't seem to be enough time in the day to accomplish everything asked of us.  And there's so much pressure to make sure our students have mastered all they need to learn this school year.  So of course we put our heads down and truck through these last few weeks, counting down the days.  But let's all try to find a few moments to pause here and there - enjoy these last few weeks of crazy.  And know that with every moment you keep your head up and ears open, you're making a difference in the life of a child.

On Sunday, I turned twenty-nine.  My last twenties birthday!  And I think it’s time for me to start being a little less to-do oriented, and a little more focused on enjoying the ride.  So here’s to a new year, and an improved me… A me who runs with her head up, and maybe even sometimes with her music turned off.

Don't Forget!
April 27th-May 2nd - Extend 1 Testing
April 30th-May11th - DIBELs EOY Benchmark
May 1st - EOG Administrator Training in Bass' Room, 3:45-5:15
May 2nd - EOG Proctor Training in Wiles' Room 11:30-12:15
May 3rd - Dorene Bates visits PLCs
May 7th-May10th - Extend 2 Testing
May 10th - 3rd, 4th, and 5th Grade Class Spreadsheets Due
May 11th - 3rd, 4th, and 5th Grade Classroom Check
May 14th-May 17th - EOG Testing
May 21st-May 25th - Remediation
May 29th-June 1st - EOG Retesting